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Taking control of your life:
Understanding the power of personal responsibility and the dangers of external blame
The most important thing that I like to talk about in my teachings and, of course, remind myself of, “Is that you are the creator of your life. You create all the events that happen in your life.” Many of us believe that life events happen to us without our choice. We blame our parents, the government, and circumstances for the conditions of our lives. We blame our bosses and colleagues for the events that happen in our lives. We have learned to look for an external factor in our lives to blame for undesirable outcomes. We do this to prove to ourselves that we are not at fault. We think and believe that we want to have a good life, but someone or something is stopping us. This negative belief is the most destructive one we can have in our minds.
The Power of Thoughts and Beliefs in Creating Your Reality
But the truth is, you are constantly creating your reality with your thoughts and beliefs. Whether you are aware of it or not, you are sending out vibrations to the universe that match your dominant frequency. And the universe responds by giving you more of what you are vibrating.
So, if you want to change your living conditions, you need to change your thoughts and beliefs. You need to shift from a mindset of lack to a mindset of abundance. You need to stop complaining and start appreciating. You need to stop worrying and start trusting God. You need to stop fearing and start loving.
The Power of Tawheed (Monotheism) in Shaping Our Life Circumstances
Many of us grew up with the belief that we have no control over our lives. But what I realized and what brought about a big change in me is that I create my own life circumstances with my thoughts, beliefs, and focus, and no one, not even in the slightest way, has any influence on my life. This is what the Quran refers to as “Tawheed” or monotheism.
The Importance of Tawheed or Monotheism in Taking Responsibility for Creating the Life You Want.
The reason I explain the concept of “Tawheed” or monotheism so much in my teachings is that it is the foundation and principle of the world. As long as you don’t take responsibility for all the circumstances of your life, and blame others and external conditions, you can’t create the life you want. This is the first, most important, and most impactful step in creating your life.
Many times, consciously or unconsciously, you have pointed fingers at others and external factors for your problems.
The first step is to believe that the world is designed to respond to your frequencies, thoughts, and attention.
The Power of Positive Thinking: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality
If you focus on something that you don’t want in your life, talk about topics that make you feel bad, or always have a negative prediction about your future, then the world creates conditions that bring to life what you imagined and paid attention to in your mind. As a result, you blame others, governments, and external factors for the unfavorable events in your life. However, the truth is that you have created all these situations with your own thoughts and beliefs.
You should believe that by controlling your thoughts, you can change your life circumstances. This is the first step towards changing your life. The first step is to believe that no external factor has an impact on your life.
Taking Charge of Your Life: Embracing Personal Responsibility and Creating Your Own Future
You are in charge of your life, and nobody else can control it, unless you give up your power and believe that life is just a matter of chance. It’s easy to feel like powerful people and governments have all the control and that we’re just helpless pawns being pushed around by the wind or puppets in a game. But this belief goes against the idea that God is fair and just. Many people think that things happen in our lives for no reason, and we can’t do anything about it. But in truth, you have control over your life, and you can create your own future by managing your thoughts and feelings.
The Power of Co-Creating with God to Shape Our Destiny
I believe that God has given us power and God has made us the creators of our own lives. He gave me the power to shape my own destiny by choosing what I think, what I pay attention to, what I talk about, and how I feel. If I want to have a better life, I just need to focus on the things that make me happy and grateful, and avoid the things that make me sad and angry. This is how God’s law works, and it never fails. This is an eternal law and cannot be changed. This perspective is about being confident and responsible. It’s about aligning with God’s nature and plan. It’s about co-creating with God.
The Transformative Power of Practical Monotheism: How Beliefs Can Change Your Life
After I created these beliefs in my mind, my life changed fundamentally. This is something I want to talk about for the rest of my life.
This is a path that shows practical monotheism in our lives.
It’s a belief that gives us power. The power to change our lives, the power to create our desires, and achieve our dreams.
The Power of Internal Beliefs in Shaping Our Reality
I want you to think about this, believe in your life that no external factor can determine your living conditions. Whatever happens in your life is a result of your own thoughts and beliefs.
This is not easy, I know. It takes practice and patience. It takes courage and commitment. It takes awareness and intention. But it is worth it. Because when you change your thoughts and beliefs, you change your life.
Practice part of the lesson #4:
there are some really important questions that you should think about and answer. When you take the time to reflect on these questions and give examples from your own life, it can really help you understand how the law works in practice and how your thoughts and beliefs impact your life.
On this web page, there’s a template answer for each question that can help you out. But keep in mind that the more you focus on these questions and try to come up with your own answers, the better you’ll grasp the law of the universe.
1- Write about a time when you blamed someone or something else for your problems or you felt like a victim of your situation. What was the outcome?
Think about the answer to this question and write it in the comments section below.
An example of how to answer this question:
A few years ago, I was struggling with my weight and I constantly felt unhappy with my body. I would blame my genetics, my busy schedule, and even my friends for tempting me with unhealthy food options.
At that time, I felt like a victim of my situation and I believed that I couldn’t change my circumstances. I didn’t realize that my negative thoughts and beliefs were contributing to my lack of progress.
It wasn’t until I had a wake-up call that I realized I needed to take ownership of my situation and make changes. I started educating myself about nutrition and fitness, and I began making small changes to my diet and exercise routine.
As I started to see progress, my mindset shifted and I began to believe that I could achieve my weight loss goals. I stopped blaming external factors for my problems and took control of my health.
The outcome was truly life-changing. I lost weight, gained confidence, and developed a healthier relationship with food and exercise. By changing my thoughts and beliefs, I was able to change my situation for the better.
2- Write about when you believed that by controlling your thoughts, you could change your life circumstances, and that no external factor could determine your living conditions. What was the result?
Think about the answer to this question and write it in the comments section below.
An example of how to answer this question:
I remember a time when I was going through a really tough phase in my life. I felt like everything was going wrong and I had no control over anything. That’s when I stumbled upon the idea that our thoughts shape our reality and that we have the power to control our thoughts.
I started practicing mindfulness and meditation, and focused on replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. I told myself that I was capable of overcoming any obstacle and that I had the power to create the life I wanted.
At first, it was difficult to shift my mindset, but with time and practice, it became easier. I started feeling more in control of my life and I noticed that positive things started happening to me.
I got a new job that I loved, made new friends, and started pursuing hobbies that made me happy. I felt like I was finally living the life I had always wanted.
Of course, there were still challenges and setbacks along the way, but I approached them with a positive attitude and saw them as opportunities for growth and learning.
Overall, I truly believe that changing my thoughts changed my life circumstances. By taking control of my mindset and focusing on positivity, I was able to create a life that was fulfilling and rewarding.
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Hello my dear teacher and Maryam
Thank you God for guiding me today to this valuable file
God, I will try my best to practice monotheism and surrender to God..
And ask God for guidance every moment, and control my mind every moment… and consciously pay attention to my desires and beauty.
And God will solve the problems of my life.
God, I pledge to be a monotheist and to do something to spread monotheism with my results, with my wealth, with my money.
God, give me your grace and help me achieve my desire
i love you
^^In the name of Lord
Hello dear master and hello to dear mz sahyesteh and hello to all my dear family
Thanks Allah that i’m in a orbit that i could meet you all here.
Thanks Allah for such a beutiful weather and nice new year.
Thanks to Allah for such a mentor and such Awareness.
I’ve listened several times to the voice of this session.
I have to answer to the question with the experience of my own life.
And finally I find out.
Let’s see
1- Write about a time when you blamed someone or something else for your problems or you felt like a victim of your situation. What was the outcome?
You now, always I’ve had big dreams. From my childhood up to now. After my marriage I had expectation of my husband to fulfill my desire!(wrong believe)
As you said in a marvelous file (practical monotheism) that you’ve thought that you don’t able to buy a car for yourself. But your student’s parents will be able.
I’ve just passed my buck. And of course I’ve known that he’s not be able to makes my dreams
come true. (Another wrong believe and self_fulfilling prophecy)
And I’ve just tolerated the situations but I’ve not been satisfied.
I started to projection. And I escaped from reality.
Everyone have made big progress but I changed several jobs but under this mindset I didn’t made as progress as I suppose. Although never I didn’t give up and always I put new idea into the progress.
finally I found out that sth is wrong!
I asked Allah to help me. I was totally unsatisfied with my condition. And Allah bring me into the orbit but under the law of evolution.
Thanks to Allah
And now I’m in the way and I believe I’ll make as progress as I suppose.
2- Write about when you believed that by controlling your thoughts, you could change your life circumstances, and that no external factor could determine your living conditions. What was the result?
What I want to answer is unbelievable for me up to now.
You know we had a apartment in an almost crowded complex and I wanted and I wish to sell it.
Under the complex we had some store that one of them was empty for long time. A short time after I handed over the apartment to the real states, the shop open with unbelievable job. You know it was ((falafel store!!!))
My goodness…
Bad smell of oil and spice added to the other weak points of my apartment and I get angry.
At first I said to my husband that to go and speak with shopkeeper and ask him to change the position of chimney.
After 2 or 3 times I can’t tolerate it any more and personally went to the shop.
That was a young boy and at first had good behavior and even apologized me. But after speaking I found out that he just made excuses to do not change position of chimney.
I think so much and I could make a call and reporting him to his union but after all I ended up with this idea:
That smell is good news for me that I will sell my apartment very soon.
Each time it smells I said that to myself.
And I was in session 4 of self-esteem course and I wrote in comment that I’m doing sth if it works I will tell you!
And unbelievably it it worked!!
Although i believe to that idea just less than 50% or even less!.
I repeated that to myself but most of that was pretending!!!! But it worked
Some times we passed infront of his shop and he was surprised that why we stop our complaints.
He never changed the chimney position but his falafel’s smell truly had good news to us. Because we had that expectation and we made that.
Still I can’t believe it completely.
Hope for more facts and proof of the law in my life until I can believe it completely.
Thanks to Allah every second for every blessing
Thank you master for this great opportunity gave us to improve our awareness parallel our English skills.
Have a good one
Question 1:
I used to feel like a victim for at least two-thirds of my life. Specially I used to spend my time, my energy and my money for anybody else and then always feel like being a victim since I didn't have any more resources to spend for myself.
I used to think that almost everybody is an abuser and people always tend to put their own responsibilities on others.
They all were happening to me because of my own lack of confidence, because I couldn't say "No", I couldn't reject any request, because I couldn't set the boundaries and I didn't have any self-esteem.
Actually that was me myself who wanted to be a victim unconsciously to justify not being successful, to justify not taking care of my own goals. Because I was not sure about myself and my abilities.
Actually this was me who couldn't take the responsibilities not them. I was afraid of taking the responsibilities, I was afraid of not being successful, I was full of fears so I was running away through creating all those situations and then being a victim.
When I found out all these about myself, I really stopped being a victim and I truly started to become responsible for the person I am and for every status I am in.
However this is scary but it's completely a new world to me, I feel I am born again. All those people are either out of my life or completely changed. I am much stronger and so much happier.
However I am still far from a truly confident person that I want to be, but now I know the game. I know how I was creating all those unwanted situations for myself and I know that I am able to create any other situation based on my desires.
This was for sure the top one awareness I was given in my entire life and I would be grateful for that forever. (I highly recommend the "Self-esteem Course" to anybody who wants to go beyond their limitations.)
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where are you?
Don't you say you miss us?
Please make a video so I can see your face
Look, it doesn't matter if this comment is approved or not
But you changed my God, my life has changed
I am experiencing the most romantic relationship in the world
Thank you very much, teacher
I miss you so much
I want to hug you tightly
One day I will see you closely and hug you tightly
I wish you all the best
Hello professor Abbasmanesh Hello Abbasmanesh research group.
Thank you very much for providing this valuable information for free to the people of the world.
The best strategy for success is that I can fix all the events in my life and that others cannot control my life
The choice of the government and the decisions of the government cannot harm my life…
If I pay attention to the good happenings in the world, wars and mistakes of the government cannot harm my life…
They tell me lies about the events of the world in the Iranian media, and if I don't listen to the media of the Iranian government, I will not believe these lies.
Best wishes….
In the name of God
The merciful the companionate
I believe and I think as you do , my master. We have the power to create our lives in shape of what we desire, all of us are using law of God, consciously and unconsciously. Every things happen in our lives is produced by our way of thinking and beliefs. External factors are outcome of inside us and if we want to have a great life we must look for happiness , positive events in our circumstances , admire wealth and rich people, be grateful because of our health and family and every thing we have. According to these items I answer the questions you mentioned.
1- When I saw myself as a victim and blame others about events that happen in my life, I felt like as a observer and a person who can’t do anything in order to make his life better. I asked myself why we were born and why God create us, what was the aim of our creation. But now I find out I have the power in my mind to make my life not only better but also make it great. I’m not victim, I just have a little faith and try to be happy and grateful and be patient in order to achieve my goals and great life.
2- When I control my thoughts , good events happen to me and when I didn’t control them bad events happened to me. When I realize the law of God I try and control my thoughts consciously and I saw the result were gorgeous. This controlling our mind is not the process that we must do it for once in our life, we must repeat it everyday like consuming foods and taking shower; our mind needs to be feed by healthy foods like positive incomes, admire our blessing , be happy and enjoy it even in undesirable situations
Hello dear,
I Thank God every moment that I open this site, cose of it's like magic. Furthermore, I don't wanna this bless become ordinary for me.
First Q:
Everything became worse and worst.
Some behavior from my colleague bothered me, and I complained constantly the result was awful, everything became changed worst and not only about my work but also about everything in my life. Income, other relationships, quality of my work, health, confidence, and……
Q2:yes the result was amazing.
5years ago I wanted to go to university and become an instructor (teaching at university)
Everyone told you will not any chance because you don't have any support and they will accept someone who they are their child, but I didn't accept
And they accepted me and everyone told me is unbelievable.