The Blueprint for Your Dream Life ( lesson #4) - صفحه 2
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گروه تحقیقاتی عباسمنش2023-04-03 02:05:582023-04-10 07:43:24The Blueprint for Your Dream Life ( lesson #4)شاید این موارد نیز مورد علاقه شما باشد
Question 1:
I used to feel like a victim for at least two-thirds of my life. Specially I used to spend my time, my energy and my money for anybody else and then always feel like being a victim since I didn't have any more resources to spend for myself.
I used to think that almost everybody is an abuser and people always tend to put their own responsibilities on others.
They all were happening to me because of my own lack of confidence, because I couldn't say "No", I couldn't reject any request, because I couldn't set the boundaries and I didn't have any self-esteem.
Actually that was me myself who wanted to be a victim unconsciously to justify not being successful, to justify not taking care of my own goals. Because I was not sure about myself and my abilities.
Actually this was me who couldn't take the responsibilities not them. I was afraid of taking the responsibilities, I was afraid of not being successful, I was full of fears so I was running away through creating all those situations and then being a victim.
When I found out all these about myself, I really stopped being a victim and I truly started to become responsible for the person I am and for every status I am in.
However this is scary but it's completely a new world to me, I feel I am born again. All those people are either out of my life or completely changed. I am much stronger and so much happier.
However I am still far from a truly confident person that I want to be, but now I know the game. I know how I was creating all those unwanted situations for myself and I know that I am able to create any other situation based on my desires.
This was for sure the top one awareness I was given in my entire life and I would be grateful for that forever. (I highly recommend the "Self-esteem Course" to anybody who wants to go beyond their limitations.)
In the name of God
The merciful the companionate
I believe and I think as you do , my master. We have the power to create our lives in shape of what we desire, all of us are using law of God, consciously and unconsciously. Every things happen in our lives is produced by our way of thinking and beliefs. External factors are outcome of inside us and if we want to have a great life we must look for happiness , positive events in our circumstances , admire wealth and rich people, be grateful because of our health and family and every thing we have. According to these items I answer the questions you mentioned.
1- When I saw myself as a victim and blame others about events that happen in my life, I felt like as a observer and a person who can’t do anything in order to make his life better. I asked myself why we were born and why God create us, what was the aim of our creation. But now I find out I have the power in my mind to make my life not only better but also make it great. I’m not victim, I just have a little faith and try to be happy and grateful and be patient in order to achieve my goals and great life.
2- When I control my thoughts , good events happen to me and when I didn’t control them bad events happened to me. When I realize the law of God I try and control my thoughts consciously and I saw the result were gorgeous. This controlling our mind is not the process that we must do it for once in our life, we must repeat it everyday like consuming foods and taking shower; our mind needs to be feed by healthy foods like positive incomes, admire our blessing , be happy and enjoy it even in undesirable situations
In the name of the creator who created me as he is the creator of my life
Hello to the best teacher in the world and the best role model Mrs. Maryam Shaista and dear friends
My life Sajjad is divided into two different parts 1: before joining this precious family 2: after Joining this family, before this path of awareness, I often saw a person as a victim of circumstances, of course, unknowingly, and I blamed the people who had inflicted deep wounds on me for the misfortune of my life, and every day it was making me more and more poisonous, and of course, unconsciously creating success. I also had some, but most of the time my subconscious relied on external factors and that's why most of my emotions were unwanted
but now, on the contrary, most of the time I control my thoughts and emotions more in the direction of what I want and the beauty and power of creating my life. What I am doing is that a few minutes ago I bought a valuable course on how to solve problems from the website, because a few days ago, instead of complaining about the financial situation and saying that I can't, I can't, but with the control of my mind and with the help and reliance on God, I completed this course. I put the shopping cart and said, "God, you will pay for it yourself, and I put the responsibility on my mind that I want this course from you, you already know, and like this, from most moments of my life, my mind was busy with these tasks and away from the factors that I did not want to pay attention to."
And the more time passes, the more I can use the power of this mind with the stability of previous successes and dreams that become memories, and the more I can control it
And this mind, like an atomic bomb, cannot be held like this without anything in your hand. Rather, it can only be guided by words and reminders to destroy the margin and to the desired direction, or by not controlling it to the destruction of ourselves, so both of them are our power and our own choice, which depends on our own choice,
Partnership with God
* On the thirteenth day, which was 3 days ago, some of my good relatives told me that you should come with us to some entertainment place which is almost always crowded and I really like it, but I scanned my inner feeling for a moment, and I saw that the God inside me was telling me, no, Sajjad. Go to this seemingly simple place that is near your house and next to so and so. I had such a good time, I got to know some strangers and how much we talked to each other and how much they admired me and took my hair number to receive my professional training and how many beautiful words and wishes they gave me and also I for them and really I can say that it was one of the best 13 days of my life because I met and met people with character and culture by relying on and partnering with my dear God. I will make more points
For now, I entrust you to my dear God to be on the best path in life. I love you a lot.
In the name of my guider towards beauties Hi mentor abasmanesh, miss shysteh and my friends I' ve been waiting for this session. Sometimes we need to review the attraction law again in order to ensure everything is the same. Simple laws in which must be repeated. No magic or trick or something unordinery needed for successQuestion1:When I was student, most of the time I blamed my parents and also goverment for my problems. I'd been comparing my situation with other pupils and complaining about it. I was asking myself, god what if i was born in another country?or in a rich family? I could have done this if ..The outcome was more difficulties and setbacks and my concentration was shattered. As a result, i nither got good scores nor enjoyed the time when i was in university.Question 2:Thinking back about my past, I was going through tough circumstances. I had no job and couldn't afford my expanses. Asking God for help, he guided me step by step to you master and after hearing the 7th epsiode of "practical Guide to Achiving Dreams" course,I ensured that i can controll my life. After that i found a job and everything got better even my relationship with others.In the protection of god
In the name of God Razaq and WahhabHello and greetings to my dear teacher, Maryam Jan and the dear ones of the site.I am grateful to God for giving me an opportunity to write on this divine site once again and to review the laws and legalities of the world with myself.All the changes in my life happened when I accepted, I am the creator of my own life! Understanding this important principle is not something that happens overnight or is only objectified by rhetoric and oral speech. But we have to work on ourselves. Let's know the laws of the world and apply them in practice and see and confirm its evidence and signs in our lives. And this is what the Quran refers to as "monotheism".Awareness of the fact that "I create myself and the events of my life with my thoughts, attention and beliefs". It changed my life and encouraged me more and more to control the inputs of my mind and consciously pay attention to the things that I want and that make me feel better.Answer to the first question:1- In my work environment, due to the bad experiences and inappropriate beliefs I had, I always thought of myself as a victim and this bad feeling tormented me for years and destroyed my enthusiasm and motivation. And this factor caused that I should always focus on the negative points and constantly remind myself and my colleagues of things that my rights were lost or that my rights were not fulfilled as I deserved. In such a way that everyone considered me a negative person that seeing me as a "Glam" character It reminded them of Gulliver's travels!The result of these negative thoughts; It was the loss of opportunities and situations that could improve my financial situation, and it is interesting that even at times the amount of attention and attention I received was more than that of my colleagues, but because of this law, without God's change, I closed the doors of blessings to myself and because I was not grateful; I deprived myself of those blessings.2- Since I got acquainted with the teacher's teachings last year and I try to implement the rules and regulations, my life cannot be compared to my past. And everything about me has undergone profound transformations and changes from the foundation, and the result is a good feeling about myself; I have my God and my life and it is a pleasure that I take in this path and this life. Being in this divine site and enjoying the presence of Master and Maryam Jan and the dear ones of the site is an endless blessing for which I am grateful every day and every moment.Focusing on the positive points made me a positive person who always tries to focus and pay attention to the positive points. The result of such attention is being at peace with myself and others. Everyone accepts me and gives me special value and respect.when instead of focusing on others; According to the rules and teachings of the professor, I focused on myself and tried not to pay attention to the unwanted things in my life; God showed me His laws and I am constantly surprised by God's grace and kind and generous look in my life.For example, when I tried to control my inputs and God returned the result of this positive frequency to me, and today I was transferred to a new responsibility and another part of my workplace that I wanted and the possibility of controlling my inputs and working more seriously and more on It provides me with my beliefs without wanting to have tension with that co-worker or get upset between us as a result of paying attention to the unwanted. Another point that I want to remind myself in this regard is the courage I showed in taking this step, which was unbelievable for many of my colleagues.But for me, taking steps in the direction of my desires and creating my business is more important than anything else, and it didn't come true except by sending positive frequencies to the world, and the world also does its work perfectly according to the law, and incredible things happen together. chooses to respond to our requests and the result of such frequencies and events is nothing but confirmation that I am the creator of my own life.
^^In the name of Lord
Hello dear master and hello to dear mz sahyesteh and hello to all my dear family
Thanks Allah that i’m in a orbit that i could meet you all here.
Thanks Allah for such a beutiful weather and nice new year.
Thanks to Allah for such a mentor and such Awareness.
I’ve listened several times to the voice of this session.
I have to answer to the question with the experience of my own life.
And finally I find out.
Let’s see
1- Write about a time when you blamed someone or something else for your problems or you felt like a victim of your situation. What was the outcome?
You now, always I’ve had big dreams. From my childhood up to now. After my marriage I had expectation of my husband to fulfill my desire!(wrong believe)
As you said in a marvelous file (practical monotheism) that you’ve thought that you don’t able to buy a car for yourself. But your student’s parents will be able.
I’ve just passed my buck. And of course I’ve known that he’s not be able to makes my dreams
come true. (Another wrong believe and self_fulfilling prophecy)
And I’ve just tolerated the situations but I’ve not been satisfied.
I started to projection. And I escaped from reality.
Everyone have made big progress but I changed several jobs but under this mindset I didn’t made as progress as I suppose. Although never I didn’t give up and always I put new idea into the progress.
finally I found out that sth is wrong!
I asked Allah to help me. I was totally unsatisfied with my condition. And Allah bring me into the orbit but under the law of evolution.
Thanks to Allah
And now I’m in the way and I believe I’ll make as progress as I suppose.
2- Write about when you believed that by controlling your thoughts, you could change your life circumstances, and that no external factor could determine your living conditions. What was the result?
What I want to answer is unbelievable for me up to now.
You know we had a apartment in an almost crowded complex and I wanted and I wish to sell it.
Under the complex we had some store that one of them was empty for long time. A short time after I handed over the apartment to the real states, the shop open with unbelievable job. You know it was ((falafel store!!!))
My goodness…
Bad smell of oil and spice added to the other weak points of my apartment and I get angry.
At first I said to my husband that to go and speak with shopkeeper and ask him to change the position of chimney.
After 2 or 3 times I can’t tolerate it any more and personally went to the shop.
That was a young boy and at first had good behavior and even apologized me. But after speaking I found out that he just made excuses to do not change position of chimney.
I think so much and I could make a call and reporting him to his union but after all I ended up with this idea:
That smell is good news for me that I will sell my apartment very soon.
Each time it smells I said that to myself.
And I was in session 4 of self-esteem course and I wrote in comment that I’m doing sth if it works I will tell you!
And unbelievably it it worked!!
Although i believe to that idea just less than 50% or even less!.
I repeated that to myself but most of that was pretending!!!! But it worked
Some times we passed infront of his shop and he was surprised that why we stop our complaints.
He never changed the chimney position but his falafel’s smell truly had good news to us. Because we had that expectation and we made that.
Still I can’t believe it completely.
Hope for more facts and proof of the law in my life until I can believe it completely.
Thanks to Allah every second for every blessing
Thank you master for this great opportunity gave us to improve our awareness parallel our English skills.
Have a good one
Hi, are you a good teacher?
where are you?
Don't you say you miss us?
Please make a video so I can see your face
Look, it doesn't matter if this comment is approved or not
But you changed my God, my life has changed
I am experiencing the most romantic relationship in the world
Thank you very much, teacher
I miss you so much
I want to hug you tightly
One day I will see you closely and hug you tightly
I wish you all the best
In the name of God
In answer to the first question, I can say that I blamed others almost all my life, I am a woman. Even though I felt the power inside me since childhood that I could make my own life, but gradually the society and family believed in me that a woman is a weak being who should always be supported by a man. I lived the life I wanted with these beliefs. I didn't get it, I always blamed the society in which I was born, I blamed my father for my marriage, and I blamed my wife for not being able to create a happy life for me. I always saw myself as a leaf in the wind, with no control over my life and I was always waiting to see what destiny had in store for me, of course, I did my responsibilities of being a housewife, wife, and mother very well and everyone was satisfied with me, but I was not satisfied with myself because this was not what I felt I should be. And this unhappiness spoils everything, and the day I was directed to this site, I realized that I myself was to blame. I built my life with my beliefs. I myself caused my forced marriage. I consider my satisfaction more important than the satisfaction of others, and how much this acceptance helped me to be a monotheist and to know that the only power in the world is God and no one or anything has the power to force me to find something. And God has given me the power to make my life the way I want, not the way others want, with my thoughts and controlling my mind.In response to the second question, I wanted to get a certificate and no one could stop me. Despite having an infant and my wife's non-cooperation, I was able to register and get accepted. However, in the rest of my life, I did it wherever I wanted to learn something because I believed that I could do anything. After being directed to this site and listening to the files, especially the file ((Principle of Survival)), I was able to understand that I am the cause of my current life and the way I created this life, God has given me the ability to change my life and I can change my life this time. Make it the way I want, not the way others say. I became much stronger today. During this time, I experienced life the way I wanted, and I am getting better day by day. Thank you, God.
After many years, I was able to drive a car, have a job, earn an income, and most importantly, be happy with myself and love myself.
Hello, my dear teacher… I thank you immensely for your presence in my life… Accepting this principle and starting changes in everyone's life means accepting the responsibility of our life and after this principle we believe that we are the creators of our own lives… Really, when I was tired and weak and I said, God, help me, it's enough, and changes and events started and I met you, and although it's hard and of course very fleeting, we have to take responsibility for our whole life, but I tell myself every day, but every time I say It seems like it is very fresh and new and my mind wants to escape, when I decided to change my life, everything changed and the situation became better… I was very sad and resisted when dealing with the contradictions at first, but I went ahead and listened to the files. I gave it to my mind, I understood that I am growing with contradictions and my desires are clear and I become a listener and a seer every day, thank God… the files I listen to are still new to me after 3 years and are like a thirsty land that needs water. ..Many changes have occurred in me only when I accepted that I am the one who has to change, only me, because I only have control over myself and my thoughts, and I cannot change anyone, and by identifying this energy leak, I spend more time working on myself and being satisfied. I am… the day I don't work, it's like I've lost something, and I have to hold the reins of the mind tighter every day and not let go… because the mind is always whispering, if you let it go, it becomes a giant who says you can't… but I tell him, you tell him to do your own thing, and I do mine, because I have a God who protects me, loves me and doesn't leave me alone. And be strong because I am the creator of my own life… By continuing this beautiful path and remembering the principle of being a creator, it connects me to the source and the container of existence grows and God supports me… Every day I love more than yesterday. I want to read… Master, we miss you on the moon. Post a video of yourself. I love you and thank you.
In God I trust
Hello to my valuable and unique coach
1-When for years I considered my father to be the cause of my misery and I always had hatred in my heart for my father and this hatred made me always attract men who made me sad .
Because I always felt like a victim, I always got into relationships that made me feel more like a victim, and I was always sad about my painful fate.
Or when my husband cheated on me, I hated him very much, and after the divorce, I thought that all men were traitors, and I knew it was my right to be friends with several men at the same time.
And with this, I destroyed my soul so that I was about to commit suicide and I didn't commit suicide just out of compassion for my daughter.
The feeling of being a victim and blaming others is like a swamp that only drags us down and makes us feel more miserable every day.
2-When I believed that I am 100% responsible for my life, the first thing that happened was that I forgave my father and after many years I was able to talk to him with love and after that I felt light.
Then I forgave my husband and wished him happiness and I am not upset with him at all.
By accepting the responsibility of my life, all unpleasant people can be easily removed from my life.
I reached a deep inner peace and now I am correcting my wrong beliefs so that God will bring the right person into my life at the right time and right place.
I believe that when my beliefs change, my experiences of life also change.
I have experienced this with financial matters, when I changed my beliefs about money, money came into my life easily.
And because I have very deep and wrong beliefs about relationships, so I need to focus more on changing my beliefs about this to succeed in changing it.
Thank you my Lord for guiding me.
God, I worship only you and I ask only you for protection.