گفتگو با دوستان 54 | کینه و نفرت = تولید بیماری

Hello my lovely master.

Key 1: This mindset suggests that if we do not follow the right path, we will not see results. However, when we take the right path, have endurance and perseverance, and remain committed, results will come and grow exponentially.

What is this right path?

Key 2: Illusion

Most people, including myself in the past, have had the illusion that in the next year, five years, or in the future, I will be in the USA, be millionaires, or own that house or car. This causes us to live in an illusory world, and importantly, this type of mindset can prevent us from trying or giving our best effort to achieve results.

What is the correct approach?

At the moment, I try my best. I strive to stay on the right path, understand the laws of success, and act accordingly.

At first, when starting and continuing, the results might seem small from others’ perspectives, or even to ourselves when we become bigger and stronger. However, as a master once said, he felt emotional with every step of progress. Delusions do not lead to real progress.

Tangible progress must be measurable; it could be in finances, relationships, feelings, or any area where we can track measurable growth.

Key 3: Initially, I asked what the right path is, and I have taken steps toward it.

There are certain types of people or personalities you must gravitate toward. The master said he wants to work with people who are genuinely making progress—those without delusions, who move forward, who are actively looking to improve themselves every day, who manage their minds, who remind themselves of the laws of success, and who take steps toward their goals. They also confront their weaknesses and work on them daily, leading to beautiful, exponential progress.

Key 4: The mind can magnify a small issue into a big one, causing us to forget how much progress we have actually made.

I am still very young and have many opportunities ahead of me, along with a long way to experience life, myself, and to make progress.

Key 5: Holding onto feelings of grudges and hatred can damage our health.

I have never harbored hatred toward my family members, friends, or relatives. I cannot understand how some people can feel that way.

However, I remember one month ago, a robber severely injured me, nearly to the point of death, for my phone. After I survived that brutal attack on my neck and abdomen, which required a lengthy 3.5-hour operation, I thought about finding the robber. I speculated he might belong to a certain group of nomadic people, and I was consumed by thoughts of revenge. In reality, I could barely stand on my own two feet, and that hatred only worsened my physical and mental condition. This experience has taught me that when we harbor hatred, the first person who suffers is ourselves.